A Queer Girl's Lifestyle Blog

Dawn broke as the van snaked around the mountain faces of Northwest Vietnam. In the pale blue light, we saw children in traditional garb...

Your good news is not always someone else’s good news. Don’t let that stop you from sharing your news with people you want to share with,...

Our lives are all segmented into multiple, invariable cycles. Monday’s minor depression high tides into Friday’s fleeting joy. The stress...

One of the questions that I had going into our medically-assisted babymaking adventure which I could not find on-line was what the actual...

Hello! Happy New Year! Welcome back to Queer Martha and, specifically, Buns in the Oven! We're still keeping on keeping on with this...

My last Buns in the Oven is from May. Perhaps you are wondering what happened. “Didn’t you go on a babymoon, like, six months ago? Didn’t...

To draw out the baking metaphor much farther than I should – we are still kneading the dough for the buns going in the oven. Maybe that...

FYI – this post talks about “lady issues,” so if you happen to be my dad… maybe don’t read it! Maybe you know that our Japan trip wasn’t...

In this series, we will explore Queer Martha's adventures in starting a queer family using love, humor, and artificial insemination. The...